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F is for French Knickers




I went away this weekend, a rave with a friend and we both ended up getting to the hotel at around 5am. Sitting in the lobby and a group of lads came over to introduce themselves. They played Rugby and were from Wales and there was one in particular who caught my eye, I’ll nickname him L for the purpose of the blog.

We all ended up in L’s bedroom. Me,  my friend, L and half the Rugby team. After an hour of talking I felt bored, so me and my mate went back to our room to sleep. A few minutes after gossiping and resting our heads, the door knocked and L walked in. He was so drunk by now and came into the room and sat on the bed. He was talking so much that my friend fell asleep and then I did too. the next thing I know there were three of us in the bed and L was spooning me. 

I didn’t expect anything. Why would I? There had been no flirting or connection between L and I, although I did admit to my friend earlier in the night that he was cute.  So when he started to rub his hands on my lacy french knickers it was the last thing I expected. He woke up me up with the circular motions he was making over my clit, it felt so good I couldn’t help but move in closer to him. 

It was when he pushed his hard cock against my arse and moved my french knickers aside to push his fingers into my now juicy pussy that I wanted him inside me and whispered for us to go into the bathroom. 

When we were in the pitch black bathroom he ripped a hole in my lace knickers and entered me from behind with one swift movement. He had quite a small build but his penis was so wide and I could feel his girth stretching me wide as he bent me over the sink. 

As my friend was sleeping next door, we kept the noise to a minimum and it added to the sexual tension. He was aware that we had to be quiet and as I gasped upon his entering me- he put his hand over my mouth. We changed positions and he sat down in the shower cubicle and I straddled him slowly, taking his cock inside me. I orgasmed so hard as I was riding him. He was sucking my nipples and making circular motions on my clit- so softly and attentively.

I stood up to change positions and he went down on me, making his way up my legs, kissing me from the bottom of my leg to the top and using his tongue to pleasure me. Whilst he was licking me out he was doing circular motions over my arse hole, making me more turned on and I couldn’t help but get lost in our fast paced actions. 

He was begging me to put my mouth over his cock but I only wanted him inside of me I got on all fours and in one breath taking movement he entered me again. 

After he licked me out, I heard my phone ringing. Knowing my friend was asleep and not wanting to disturb her, I quickly walked out the room to answer it.  A brief conversation later I returned and he demanded me to get on all fours. I could tell he was ready to cum by this point. 

He penetrated me, this time passionate and hard-  holding my hair and fucking me until we both orgasmed together. 

We both got back into bed as if nothing happened as my friend lay sleeping. 

A few hours later he kissed me goodbye and left the room. I shut the door behind him and glanced in the bathroom.

On the floor, I noticed my ripped French Knickers, I laughed at what was left of them, afterall it’s not every night you get to fuck a Rugby player.

E is for “Expect the Unexpected”

Sex, Hotel, Expect the Unexpected They often say that when you’re not thinking about something it comes about. That moment when you least expect it to occur, the most amazing experience will greet you. With sex, this couldn’t be truer. Always expect the unexpected…Always…

We were in the bar when I met him. It was just a Thursday evening, me and my girlfriends were having a drink and he walked over. He was in his work gear, a black T-shirt and orange hi-vis trousers. With a smile that instantly made you feel at ease, he approached me and started to make conversation. M was a construction worker from up north and he was in town for a contract role. They were staying at the local hotel and had come to the pub from a few drinks. 2 hours and 5 or 6 rounds later their group were drunk but he still had that warm friendly feeling and soon became very touchy feeling, giving me hugs and cheeky pecks on the cheek as he whispered in my ear. I never expected to me him, I didn’t know what was going to happen, it was a Thursday night he was here from out of town but my instincts told me it was going to be a night to remember. I liked him and could feel myself getting more and more attracted to his whole demeanour. He was a show man, the life and soul but at the same time really acknowledged my presence- looking me deep in the eye as we spoke and not hiding that he wanted me. We were about to all leave when it started to kick off, with a few of the men in the pub having too much to drink and wanting trouble. M got in the middle of it, threatening to sort it out if they didn’t back down. Earlier he said he’d done time in prison for fighting and didn’t want to go back there so my group and I did our best to calm him down. I grabbed his arm and pulled him away from the crowd behind a van. I was so turned on by now by my first impression, talk of prison and his aggression that I wanted him closer. I wanted more. He listened to me as I asked him to go back to the hotel because the police were called. Tipsy but in high spirits, we walked to the double room and turned off the lights and watched from the window as the police turned up and started to look for him and his friends. As we were looking he started talking softy to me and I could feel his warm breath up against my neck, he then started to rub my leg with his gentle hands. I had goosebumps and could feel myself starting to get wet and turned on. He got undressed and as he took his top of I could see the shape of his toned figure and the muscles in every part of his body from his arms to his calves. He wasn’t a body builder or anything of the like but he was strong and I could feel my knickers getting wetter. I sat on the bed and he took my jeans off, unbuttoning them slowly and looking me in the eye as he did. Once they were off, he slowly pulled my knickers down. He then opened my legs, and put his tongue in my pussy. Licking and sucking and playing. I arched my back and lifted my arse up higher to get more of him in me, it felt so good I couldn’t be quiet and moaned and groaned at the pleasure I was feeling. It was so selfless. He wanted to see me feeling good and it turned him on more. His dick was getting harder and harder and I could see that look in his eye, that he wanted to penetrate me but still he played. Still he teased and I was at his every whim. Kissing my whole body, everywhere. My neck, my hands, my arms, my inner thighs. I then went down on him, sucking his cock with the same level of attentiveness he had given to my pussy. I wanted to make him feel the same, I wanted the sex to be explosive and knew the more turned on we both felt the more the sex would be mind blowing. And then it happened. He held my hands down above my head and gyrated his hips, in such a sultry, sexual way. He slid his dick deep inside me and I gasped at the feeling of his rock hard shaft inside of me. I wrapped my legs around his waist and grinded with him. I was shouting his name as we changed from doggy, to missionary, from the bed to the desk. I was in heaven. Wanting him more and more. We stopped at one stage for an half an hour, just whilst he held me tight, stroked my hair and stroked my arms and then we started again. It was about 4am when he fell asleep. I picked up my knickers, bra, clothes and got dressed in the bathroom. I put my hair in a ponytail, checked my reflection in the mirror and picked up my car keys. I took one look at him and smiled to myself as I thought about how the random nights are often the best, and the most amazing sex usually comes about when it’s not pre-empted. ‘Expect the Unexpected’ I laughed to myself as I gently closed the hotel room door, carefully.

‘Expect the Unexpected’.

D is for Doggy


Doggy style is one of my favourites, it can be either sexy and sensual or downright dirty……If you get it right.

Remember, there are several trigger points when doing it doggy. Whilst penetrating  from the behind, pay special attention to each of the following and your bound to make the pussy cum.

  • Nipples- if your doing it slow and gentle, caress the nipples tenderly. They’ll be sensitive at this point and will help bring her to orgasm. If your going for dirty, grab while fucking hard. The tight grip around her tits will let her know how much you want her and that in itself is a turn on.
  • Hips- Set the pace, hold her hips but when I say I really mean ‘hold’. The feeling of a man’s strong hands gives a woman pleasure and she will succumb to your motion.
  • Arse- The higher the arse the more fun. Not only will it feel deeper but it will make the pussy tighter. You could always try caressing or spanking the shit out of it, biting, spitting- or maybe I’m just getting carried away with what I like ; )

Remember you have good access to the whole body, from feet to hair. This is your chance to explore every last inch whilst inside her…


C is for Clit

Wet, soaking wet and throbbing. When I’m turned on, my clit will let you know about it. If you touch it, I’ll be tender so please play nicely. A few men I’ve fucked have this habit of thinking the harder they finger me, the happier my vagina will be be. Big mistake. It doesn’t work like that and that’s the case for most women. After playing for some time the Clit gets more and more tender. To the degree it stings if you apply too much pressure.

However, I’ll let you know a secret…. if you play gently it will spurt like a water fountain. The trick is to tease it. So softly, with your tongue or your finger- caress it gently like a rose petal that you want to nurture with your finger or when you lick the icing of the top of the cake. Nice and gentle and my pussy will be pulsating. It will want more and more until I’m screaming at the top of my lungs, until you leave me in a puddle of my own juices…

and then attend to another area of my body….



A is for Anal….

“Lay on your front and hold your ass cheeks apart, so I can fuck your tight hole.” 



Is what he text me. I got wet, in an instant. Anal sex is that taboo that no one likes to talk about but deep down everybody wants. Unless you’ve felt the deep throbbing of his cock in your tight hole, you don’t know good it is and the truth is, I love it.  

But how do you ask a woman to take it up the arse? How do you politely drop the topic into conversation over afternoon tea. The tip is, don’t complicate it. Start testing the parameters by experimenting during sex. First with your finger, put it in her mouth whilst your going hard at it and make sure its wet and slippery. When grabbing her cheeks and pulling her closer, gently massage the anal hole with your finger- the outside at first. If she doesn’t like it, you will know about it. Either she will move your hand or change position. If she doesn’t, you’re in. Continue to play and gradually penetrate the hole with your finger. She will like it, its naughty, its different, its exciting and it feels fucking good. If she doesn’t like it maybe drop it into conversation the next time you are having an intimate discussion and ask her why. That way you’ll know your parameters. Continue to push your finger deep in the the arse hole whilst fucking and her  orgasm will be out of this world. 

If she cums, you are one step closer to entering the taboo Zone and having your dick inside her hole…But always ask. The next time you have sex place the woman in the doggy position and massage her hips whilst leaning in close to her ear and whispering ‘Can I put it in, not the usual place’…

You will get your answer.

Top Tip*** Double Dipping**

You don’t need any lube if you double dip. Fuck the Vagina, get covered in juice and then penetrate the arse hole. Voila; you just double dipped.

B is for Blow job


Some people think a blow job is all about him. Give the man pleasure, with his cock in your mouth and do what you can until he cums. I know different. Take ownership, be in control and you will feel so turned on you can be just as close to orgasm as he is…

Take note of the following and don’t forget its as much about you enjoying it as it is him…

-Hold the base of his cock

-Slowly make your way down with your mouth

-While coming back up to his tip move your hand up (twisting and sucking together)

-Use your hand slowly up and down his shaft while teasing his end with your tongue. Its all about the tease!

-Always keep your hand and his balls wet. Either with your saliva or lubricant. I find there’s only so much saliva I have, as I like to take my time. So try a nice tasting lubricant, I love the Cherry flavoured Durex gel from Superdrug, Suck the whole tub dry…





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I thought it a good idea to start my own blog, to write about everything I’ve learnt along the way and everything I’m still learning….I’m the naughty one, the go to girl for tips and sex addict of the group. Pleasure, indulgence and promiscuity are my thing and I talk dirty at every opportunity. So why not start writing about it?

Sex parties, Sex toys, blow jobs, and threesomes…Welcome to my World….